Wednesday, March 5, 2008












lets get down with a serious note "men still prefer home-made food" amazed??



READ ON: Talk about food ,or rather lack of it, coming in between marital bliss!!!! Recently the high court has rejected an engineer's demand to divorce his wife as she does not cook for him. The judiciary rightfully stated that a wife's disinclination to cook cannot be a valid charge to file for a divorce. This was the case that occured recently but lets leave that and move on to see what's happening in our daily lives.


Coming down to over daily lives lets have a look at this point. Have you ever refused to cook for your hubby dearest and young men out there, have you ever been rude to your wives for been late for dinners or just have a fight over the taste of the food??? Dont worry this is the scenario in today's world and it often happens in our day to day life. Most young men admits that they would be a bit hassled if the women in their lives refused to cook for them,but also quickly add that slapping on the apron and cooking up a nice,hot dinner for hubby dearest is not necessarily the only expected thing from women anymore. YES, most men nowadays love to contribute in cooking as much as their wives would. but the point is men still prefer wives who cook. Home cook food is something that everyone looks forward to. Though men thinks that cooking is something every individual should know and it is more of a survival skill."The sterotypes have been deprived from age old division of labour in primitive ages where the men would hunt and women cook. Now both men and women are hunting ,if you can say so,in monetary terms. so it's only fair both know how to cook" Cooking is just like any other skill and anyone can do it. Just think...the spatula-yielding woman in the kitchen image has as much relevance today as the man in overalls repairing stuff in the garage". Today's men think in a totally different ways. Men has voice their opinion by saying that "its not about 'men' and 'women'. Its more like each individual having their own strengths and if a man can cook well and enjoys it,so be it.If a woman enjoys cooking ,then let her do it.why make it a battle of the sexes?" This is the way men thinks and it gives a strong point here. Even indian mythology has a different tale to tell. In ancient indian mythology,the country's best cook was King Nala and not any woman.Even Bheema was known to be a great cook.So basically we cant really blame our culture or society for such distractions. Most of the norms have been distorted. But still men prefer to depend on women who cook for them and they really love it and what's more they are ready to contribute in cooking so prepare a good meal for your hubby and make a way to his heart through food and see him enjoying food prepared by you. So now what's the next meal you are going to prepare for your family??????

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